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Scenario

When couples grieve differently after pregnancy loss

My wife and I are both grieving the loss of our first pregnancy but we're processing it in completely different ways and I feel like we're becoming strangers to each other when we most need connection. She wants to talk about it constantly and I need space to process internally first, but neither of us knows how to honor both needs without one person feeling abandoned or overwhelmed.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Profound shared loss reveals incompatible processing styles that create distance precisely when unity feels most essential for survival.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with History as pattern recognition?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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