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When couples who are both therapists can't stop analyzing their relationship

My wife and I are both therapists and we thought we'd be great at communicating with each other but we've created this meta-conversation hell where we're constantly analyzing our relationship instead of just being in it. We can't seem to turn off the professional observer mode when we're together.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Professional skills meant to heal others become barriers to authentic intimacy when turned inward without boundaries.

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