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When couples are healing trauma while parenting together

My wife and I are both trying to heal from our own childhood trauma while raising our kids, and sometimes we project our triggers onto each other or onto parenting situations in ways that make everything worse. We'll be doing well and then one of us will get activated and pull the other person down with them.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people attempting simultaneous healing are discovering how their individual wounds intersect and amplify in shared responsibilities.

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