My wife and I are trying to conceive and it's been two years of treatments and disappointments, and we've developed completely different coping mechanisms - she wants to talk about it constantly and research everything, I want to pretend it's not consuming our lives - and now we feel more like roommates managing a medical situation than partners supporting each other.
More people experience this than they realize.
Shared suffering does not automatically create intimacy; it requires the courage to stay curious about your partner's way of surviving the same pain.
“Where Are You with EMDR and trauma processing?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.