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Scenario

When couples face major life decisions with mutual understanding but no resolution

My wife and I are trying to decide whether to have kids and we both genuinely see the other person's perspective, which somehow makes it harder because neither of us can just be the 'bad guy' who doesn't want what the other wants.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Deep empathy for each other's position paradoxically prevents movement toward any decision.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

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Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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