Periagoge
Scenario

When couples can avoid conflict but can't repair from it

My wife and I have been in couples therapy for eight months and we've gotten better at not fighting but we still don't know how to repair after we do fight. We just go back to being polite to each other and pretend it didn't happen, which feels worse than the actual conflict.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Learning to prevent harm is not the same as learning to heal from it, leaving relationships in a state of fragile peace.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Worth thinking about

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Peri

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