My wife and I have been in therapy trying to understand how our respective traumas show up in our marriage, and we've learned a lot individually but we're struggling to create new patterns together because we get triggered by each other's healing process.
More people experience this than they realize.
The very act of examining formative wounds together becomes a source of mutual activation, complicating the preparation for healthier relating.
“Where Are You with The temporal axis — studying the past as preparation?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.