My wife and I have been trying to conceive for three years and we're dealing with it completely differently — she wants to research every option and I just want to take breaks from thinking about it, and now we're not even talking about it anymore which feels worse than the disappointment.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people are experiencing the same loss but their opposing ways of processing it are creating distance rather than connection.
“Where Are You with Nervous system regulation?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.