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Scenario

When couples recognize inherited relationship patterns but can't break them

My wife and I keep having the same fight about money every few months and yesterday we both realized we're replaying the exact dynamic her parents had and the one mine had, just with different details. We can see the pattern now but we don't know how to actually break out of it when we're in it.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Recognition of destructive patterns doesn't automatically provide the tools to interrupt them in real time.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with History as pattern recognition?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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