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Scenario

When startup teams avoid conflict by calling themselves family

Our startup team of four co-founders keeps saying we're like family but when we have conflict we handle it terribly - either we avoid it completely or someone explodes. We've built this myth of being best friends but we can't actually navigate disagreement without everything feeling personal and threatening.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Premature intimacy without conflict resolution skills creates pseudo-closeness that fractures under real pressure.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Psychoanalytic frameworks for self-understanding?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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