Periagoge
Scenario

When people-pleasing destroys intimacy

I feel guilty every time I prioritize my needs over my partner's and end up resenting them for my own choices.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The adapted self learned that others' needs matter more than its own, creating relationships built on self-betrayal rather than authentic exchange.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attachment theory — complete guide?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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