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Scenario

Why people-pleasing creates unconscious resentment

I keep agreeing to things I don't want to do then resenting people for asking even though they have no idea I wanted to say no.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Avoiding immediate discomfort of boundary-setting creates deeper suffering through accumulated inauthenticity.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Cognitive biases — complete reference?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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