Periagoge
Scenario

When setting boundaries triggers overwhelming guilt and anxiety

I understand boundaries intellectually and can set them clearly but I still feel guilty and anxious every time I say no to someone and the emotional backlash makes me want to give up.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Healthy relationship skills often conflict with unconscious survival patterns learned in early relationships, creating internal resistance to necessary changes.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Types of knowledge — explicit tacit cultural?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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