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Scenario

When We Become What We Swore We Would Never Become

My partner says I respond to stress exactly like my alcoholic father, getting angry and withdrawing, even though I swore I would never be like him.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Unconscious behavioral modeling can override conscious intentions, perpetuating unwanted family patterns despite strong resistance.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Social learning theory?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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