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Scenario

When parents struggle with boundaries around adult children's conflicts

My adult children keep asking me to take sides in their conflicts with each other and I want to be supportive but I'm starting to feel like I'm enabling their inability to work things out directly. I don't want to abandon them but I also don't want to be the permanent mediator for people in their thirties.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

They're trying to love their children well while recognizing that their help might actually be preventing the growth that needs to happen.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

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Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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