My adult children keep asking me to take sides in their conflicts with each other and I want to be supportive but I'm starting to feel like I'm enabling their inability to work things out directly. I don't want to abandon them but I also don't want to be the permanent mediator for people in their thirties.
More people experience this than they realize.
They're trying to love their children well while recognizing that their help might actually be preventing the growth that needs to happen.
“Where Are You with Small legacy vs. great legacy — do scale and ambition matter??”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.