My adult children live in different cities and we try to stay connected through family group texts and video calls, but it's starting to feel performative rather than natural, and I think we're all afraid that if we stop trying so hard to maintain closeness, we'll discover we don't actually have much in common anymore.
More people experience this than they realize.
The fear that natural drift means failed love can drive us to manufacture connection in ways that feel hollow to everyone involved.
“Where Are You with The need to belong — evolutionary foundation?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.