Periagoge
Scenario

When friendships get stuck in patterns of cancelled plans

My best friend and I have been doing this thing where we say we'll get together every month and then one of us always cancels last minute, and now it's been four months and we're both pretending it's fine but I can feel us drifting and neither of us knows how to break the cycle.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The small betrayals of good intentions are quietly eroding a friendship that both people still want.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Indigenous clan and community systems?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.