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When friends from different spiritual backgrounds struggle to discuss mortality and meaning together

My best friend and I have been planning how we want to be remembered and what death means to us, but she's coming from a Buddhist perspective about impermanence and I'm wrestling with my Catholic upbringing, and we keep talking past each other when we try to discuss what really matters about mortality and legacy.

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Two people are discovering that their different religious and philosophical frameworks for understanding death create barriers to the intimate conversation they both want to have.

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