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Scenario

When friends make major life plans together but one person starts backing out

My best friend and I have been planning this cross-country move together for two years and now that it's actually happening, I can feel her getting cold feet but she won't say it directly. We've already given notice on our apartments and I don't know if I should pretend I don't see what's happening or force a conversation that might end everything.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The gap between what you've committed to together and what you're both actually feeling is threatening the foundation of your friendship.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

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Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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