My best friend from college and I have been through everything together for twenty years, and now she's going through a messy divorce and leaning on me harder than ever, but I'm starting to feel like I'm being pulled into drama with her ex who I also considered family, and I don't know how to show up for her without losing myself in it.
More people experience this than they realize.
The intensity of chosen family bonds can blur boundaries in ways that feel both essential and unsustainable.
“Where Are You with The friend who is family?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.