Periagoge
Scenario

When siblings judge each other's strategies for navigating marginalized identities

My brother and I are both gay but he moved to a big city where he found his people and I stayed in our rural hometown, and when he visits he makes comments about my choices that make me feel like I'm not doing queerness right.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The pain of feeling misunderstood by the person who should most understand your constraints and choices.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The outsider experience?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.