My brother and I are both trying to forgive our dad for things he did when we were kids, but we're doing it completely differently — he wants to have regular dinners and 'move forward' while I need Dad to actually acknowledge what happened first, and it's creating this weird tension where we're almost competing over who's handling forgiveness 'right.'
More people experience this than they realize.
The path toward forgiveness becomes fractured when family members need different things from the same person who hurt them.
“Where Are You with Forgiving parents?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.