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Scenario

When family loyalty codes protect harmful behavior

My brother and I are realizing that our family has always operated on this principle that loyalty means never criticizing anyone within the family to outsiders, even when there's genuine harm happening. Now that we're dealing with some serious issues with our cousin's behavior toward his kids, we're stuck between family loyalty and doing what's right - and the family is making it clear that even expressing concern is betrayal.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The demand for unconditional loyalty often shields the very behaviors that destroy trust.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

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