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Scenario

When siblings clash over caregiving approaches for aging parents

My brother and I both take care of Mom but we have completely different ideas about what that means, and every decision becomes this exhausting negotiation where we're really fighting about who loves her more.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Different expressions of love and duty become competing claims about who cares more deeply.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Family as belonging — and its limits?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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