Periagoge
Scenario

When siblings co-moderate online communities and clash over growth versus gatekeeping

My brother and I have been co-moderating a niche gaming subreddit for three years and lately we're completely at odds about how strict to be with new members — he wants to gatekeep to preserve the culture we built, I want to grow the community, and our fights about it are spilling over into family dinners.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people who share both blood and digital responsibility are discovering that their visions for community stewardship reflect deeper differences in how they approach belonging and change.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Discord Reddit and niche tribes?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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