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Scenario

When families disagree about managing a deceased loved one's social media accounts

My brother died unexpectedly last month and his social media accounts are still active with people posting memories and condolences, but we can't access them to manage anything and some family members think we should leave them alone while others want them memorialized or deleted. It's becoming this weird ongoing source of tension when we're all still just trying to grieve.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Death in the digital age creates new forms of shared mourning and memory-keeping that families must navigate without roadmaps, often revealing different values about privacy, permanence, and letting go.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Digital legacy — your online presence after death?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.