My close friend has been going through a really hard time and I want to support her but she's started calling me multiple times a day and getting upset when I can't talk. I love her but I'm starting to dread her calls and I don't know how to be there for her without losing myself in her crisis.
More people experience this than they realize.
The desire to help someone we love can become a source of resentment when our own limits aren't honored.
“Where Are You with Community and difference — when disagreement is inside?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.