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Scenario

When long friendships start feeling performative instead of genuine

My closest friend and I have been through everything together for fifteen years but lately when we hang out it feels like we're both performing our friendship rather than actually living it. We keep making plans and going through the motions but something essential has shifted and neither of us is naming it.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are mourning the natural evolution of intimacy while afraid to acknowledge what they're losing.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Christian stewardship of life and gifts?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.