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When your closest friend group starts drifting apart in your thirties

My closest friend group from college has been slowly drifting apart since we all got married and had kids, and now when we do get together it feels forced and surface-level. We all keep saying we should do this more often but no one actually makes it happen, and I'm starting to wonder if we're all just holding onto something that's already over.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A group is struggling with the gap between their shared history and their current capacity for connection.

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