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Scenario

When college friendships struggle to evolve with adult life

My closest friends from college and I used to talk every week but now months go by between conversations and when we do connect it feels surface-level like we're all protecting each other from how much our lives have actually changed. I love them but I don't know if we know how to be friends as the people we've become instead of who we were at twenty-two.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A group of friends is clinging to an old version of intimacy while being afraid to discover whether they can create a new one that fits who they are now.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

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Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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