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Scenario

When friend groups struggle to evolve past who they used to be

My college friend group tries to get together once a year but it's started feeling forced and awkward because we're all such different people now than we were at 22. Half of us want to keep pretending we're still those people and half of us want to acknowledge that maybe we've outgrown this tradition, but nobody wants to be the one to say it.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A group is caught between honoring shared history and accepting present reality.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Found family in migration and diaspora?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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