Periagoge
Scenario

How long-term friendships can drift into performance rather than connection

My college friends and I have been getting together for fifteen years and somewhere along the way our reunions became about performing success rather than actual connection. We spend the whole time talking about achievements and avoiding anything vulnerable, and now I feel like I don't actually know these people anymore.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Success can become the enemy of intimacy when we mistake achievements for the people who earned them.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Unintended legacy — what we leave without meaning to?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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