My college friends and I used to stay in touch regularly but now we only really connect when someone gets married or has a baby or there's some big announcement. When we do talk it feels like we're all performing our lives for each other instead of actually being friends and I miss how real we used to be.
More people experience this than they realize.
The scaffolding of shared history isn't enough to sustain connection when you've all grown into people who no longer know how to be vulnerable with each other.
“Where Are You with Introversion and belonging?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.