My college roommate and I stayed close for fifteen years after graduation, but since she got sober two years ago our friendship feels completely different and I don't know how to navigate it. She's changed in ways that are good for her but I feel like I lost my friend and I don't know if that makes me a terrible person.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people are discovering that growth and healing in one person can destabilize a relationship built on different premises, requiring both to grieve who they used to be together.
“Where Are You with Parasocial relationships?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
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