My extended family expects us to host every holiday because we have the biggest house, but my spouse and I are exhausted and resentful, and when we try to suggest alternatives everyone acts like we're being selfish.
More people experience this than they realize.
Long-standing family patterns persist through guilt and assumption rather than genuine choice.
“Where Are You with Family as belonging — and its limits?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.