My husband and I have been arguing about money for months and it's not really about the budget, it's about the fact that we have completely different relationships to security and risk and we've never actually talked about what money means to each of us.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people are having the same surface argument repeatedly because they haven't yet had the deeper conversation about what safety and freedom mean to each of them.
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