Periagoge
Scenario

When couples feel like roommates rather than partners

My husband and I have been married for fifteen years and we've created this life that looks good from the outside but feels empty to both of us. We're efficient roommates who coordinate schedules and manage kids, but we've lost any sense of why we chose each other or what we're building together.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are recognizing that maintaining a life together isn't the same as creating one.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Friendship — Aristotle's three types?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.