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Scenario

When couples fight about money but it's really about values

My husband and I keep having the same fight about money - he thinks I spend too much on the kids' activities and I think he's too controlling - but underneath I think we're really fighting about what kind of parents we want to be and neither of us is saying that.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are using practical disagreements to avoid naming deeper differences about how they want to live.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Exclusion and its damage?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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