Periagoge
Scenario

When online and offline friend group dynamics mirror each other problematically

My local friend group all joined the same niche Discord about urban foraging and now it's become this weird extension of our real-life social dynamics where the same person dominates conversations and the rest of us just lurk, but none of us want to address it because it might mess up both spaces.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A group of friends is discovering that digital spaces can amplify rather than resolve existing social imbalances, creating a double bind where addressing the pattern risks both relationships and community.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Discord Reddit and niche tribes?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.