My mom and I are finally in a good place after years of conflict, but whenever my dad or siblings are around, we both revert to these old defensive patterns that don't reflect who we actually are with each other anymore. We can't figure out how to protect the trust we've built while still being part of the larger family dynamic.
More people experience this than they realize.
A hard-won dyadic trust cannot withstand the gravitational pull of established family patterns, leaving both people feeling like they lose themselves in the larger group.
“Where Are You with Trust as belonging infrastructure?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.