Periagoge
Scenario

When adult siblings disagree on caring for aging parents

My mom is getting older and clearly needs more help, but my siblings and I live in different states and have completely different ideas about what that help should look like, and every family call turns into the same circular argument about who can do what and what she actually wants.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Geographic distance and different life circumstances are making it impossible to coordinate care in a way that feels fair to everyone.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

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Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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