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Scenario

When siblings fall into unequal caregiving roles without discussion

My mom is getting older and needs more help but my brother lives across the country and somehow I've become the default caregiver without us ever discussing it. We both love her but we've never talked about what's fair or what we each can actually handle.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Proximity became assumption, and now resentment is building where conversation should have been.

Your guide for this
Rabia
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