My mom is getting older and needs more help but my brother lives across the country and my sister thinks we should hire someone while I think family should take care of family. Every conversation about it turns into old arguments about who does what and who cares more and meanwhile Mom is pretending she's fine when she's clearly not.
More people experience this than they realize.
A family is paralyzed by competing values and old dynamics while real needs go unmet.
“Where Are You with Indigenous seventh-generation thinking?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.