My partner and I both work full-time and we keep having the same fight about whose job matters more when our kid gets sick or school calls, and we've started keeping score of who has sacrificed what and it's making us resent each other. We both know the system is impossible but we're taking it out on each other instead of figuring out how to navigate it together.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people are turning structural impossibility into personal failure, competing instead of collaborating against a system that demands the impossible.
“Where Are You with Work and parenting — the structural impossibility?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.