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Scenario

When couples avoid the deeper questions about parenthood

My partner and I have been talking about having kids for a year but we keep having the same surface-level conversations and never getting to the real questions — what if we disagree on parenting decisions, what if one of us feels trapped, what if we're not good at it. We're both scared to go deeper because what if we discover we want different things.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people must risk their comfortable uncertainty to discover if they're building toward the same future.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

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Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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