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Scenario

When couples can't move past 'someday' on major life decisions

My partner and I have been talking about having kids for two years and we keep having the same circular conversation where we both say we want them 'someday' but neither of us is willing to say when someday actually is, and I'm starting to wonder if we're both just hoping the other person will make the decision.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people discover that wanting the same thing in theory doesn't solve the terror of committing to it in practice.

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Microaggressions and the slow exclusion?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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