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Scenario

When couples discover they remember their love story differently

My partner and I have been together for eight years and we've started talking about marriage, but when we try to tell the story of how we met and fell in love, we realize we remember key moments completely differently — and some of the differences make me question whether we were even in the same relationship. We keep laughing it off but it's starting to feel like we might be building a future on two different foundations.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The stories we tell ourselves about our shared past shape the future we think we're building together, but what happens when those stories don't align?

Your guide for this
Rabia
Rabia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Autobiography and the story you tell about your life?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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