My partner and I have been together for eight years and we've talked about marriage casually but never seriously, and now we're both in our thirties and I can feel us both waiting for the other person to bring it up properly, which is creating this weird tension where we're planning a future without talking about what that future actually is.
More people experience this than they realize.
The comfort of an established relationship has created a space where both people are afraid to name what they actually want.
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