My partner and I have been trying to find 'our people' since we moved here three years ago, but we keep having this pattern where one of us connects with someone and the other feels left out, and then we both retreat instead of figuring out how to build something together. We're starting to blame each other for why we're still lonely.
More people experience this than they realize.
Individual social anxieties are creating a dynamic where each person's connection threatens the other's sense of belonging, preventing shared community building.
“Where Are You with Trust as belonging infrastructure?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.