My roommate and I became friends before we moved in together and now living together is ruining our friendship because we have completely different standards for cleanliness and boundaries and neither of us wants to be the uptight one but the resentment is building. We both act like everything is fine but we're both counting grievances and it's poisoning something that used to be easy.
More people experience this than they realize.
Intimacy reveals incompatibilities that friendship's normal boundaries used to hide.
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Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.